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36-40,
*rincess_sparkle
writes:Hi! My problem is that im still desperatley in love with my ex boyfriend two years after we broke up. The two years before that we dated on and off. I treated him badly, not because he wasnt good to me but because I was so insecure about myself. Our relationship ended on a very bad note! Well now two years later Iam still so in love with him that it hurts inside. Well I recently had got back in touch with him after two years. I sent him a message on myspace and I told him that I was sorry for everything I did and that I would like to be friends. Well he called me the next morning and we formed a truce. We are now friends again and all is forgiven. he said some things that made me think he might still have feelings for me. He said him and his family talk about me a lot, he thought a lot about me when he saw something that reminded him of me, and he said he has tried to look me up on myspace lots of times. That was a week before and I havent heard from him since. I dont quite no what to make of our relationship now? Do you think he still has feelings for me?
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reader, brooke5426  +, writes (12 September 2007):
 just tell him you have missed him and wondered if he would like to get to know each other again. You're not with him and you survived 2 years without him so you have nothing to lose and potentially everything to gain.remember that after 2 years you are both probably very different people so it might not work this time round - but then again it might be a lot better than it was. ask him how he feels, assure him you have sorted through all of your issues and would not treat him as badly as you did before, then ask him what he thinks about trying again.i think he is probably thinking the same things you are, i have exes who i want nothing to do with and i can assure you i would never look them up on myspace, i dont let anyone say their names around me and if any of them did email me i dont think i would even open it - it would be deleted without being read.but i also have exes who i wonder what they are up to and would love to get in contact with again because they still have a special place in my heart. and it sounds to me like you are the latter for him.good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2007): Just ask him, thats all you can do, if not you will be wondering forever, if he doesnt then just accept that youre friends and move on, really what have you got to lose? just send him another message asking to met up one night, and see what happens, good luck
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