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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I am a married woman have been with my husband for 21 years un total, but had an affair a year ago. I thought i had found my"soulmate" with this new man as he told me i was his and yes i do belive i was.Then in January he told me that if i didn't leave my husband he would have to call it a day. I couldnt do it to my boys so i stayed but i still had really strong feelings for him. We still text and spoke nearly everyday then out of the blue i sat my boy's down and told my husband i wanted to be with him,but when i told my "soulmate this he came out with a classic "the only money i have is for my football" i was distrought. Yet again we still talked and text but weeks later he cooled off, i found out that he is seeing someone 21 years old, but i still love him help
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reader, nnairac1972  +, writes (17 June 2008):
I just think is the age, just think who will tell someone to leave the other person when he knows you had been with your husband for 21 years and you have a family with him, I just think this man is just playing with you and wants to see how far you go with him, please just forget the all thing and love your family, Do not make the mistake of living you family for him, if you leave you will be leaving something behind very precious for you, this won't leave you alone, you will be miserable and won't be happy with this player, this is what he is, just keep your time with your family, do new things with your husband, go for vacation, make new friends, enroll into something new, please this is something that we all feel, but it is just an illusion, if you leave your family this man will leave you because he will be afraid that you will do the same to him, also some man likes marry woman because they feel there isn't any commiment and also they feel it is a feeling of danger... DO NOT LEAVE YOUR FAMILY
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