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writes:I was just recently divorced from my lifelong friend of 20 years (15 married). We were both at fault, but me moreso. We have been separated a year, and I have not lived with her for about a year. She is moving on, dating 2 guys and on Match.com. I have a partner, but am having second thoughts. The sale of the house and finalization of the divorce is hauting me with feelings and I still love my ex. I mean I really love her. I cant let her or my past go. But she wants to move on.I know I cant make her love me, but I cant love my new partner wholly because of where I'm at. I dont know what to do. I am very emotionally vulnerable right now and have bad dreams and anxiety attacks and I'm afraid if I go on my own, I will completely fall apart. I have few real friends, and my family is not very supportive either. I cant afford a therapist. My partner is getting a little tired of it all I think, so I can only talk to her so much.How do I move on?
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