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writes:We have been out this relationship for some yrs. He cheated but apologized i he was with his new girl but continued to tell me how much he missed me But we still talk but in the mean time he leaves her and goes with someone else. but still continues to tell me he loves me and etc.It has been 2 yrs. since we have brokn up. over 1 1/2 since we started back talking.I havent given up but idk if i should cause it makes me look stupid and foolish b/c he feeds me one line shows the whole facbook world differnt. And tells her differnt. Its so hard b/c i dont want anyone else. and he is the father of my child . :(
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reader, philly101  +, writes (23 October 2010):
i think someone like that isnt worth your time you will find some one else even though ya think they the only person but just enjoy your self in the here and now ive had friends in your situation and they have found people that treat them with the most respect and love each other so much but if they want to see their kid let them
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): He is your ex for a reason. You wont ever lose feelings for him but move on
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (23 October 2010):
 He is just keeping you sweet and hanging in there while he goes on his merry way.
As JMC says, actions speak louder than words, and his actions are telling you a completely different story to that of his lying mouth.
You say its hard because you dont want anybody else, well, life isnt going to end if you chose NOBODY. You dont have to have anybody, better nobody than this person that just keeps stringing you along.
Forget about a relationship for now, you are quite young, concentrate on building a better life for you and your baby, study, learn new skills, take the baby to play group and story time at the library, by focussing on and filling your life with the really important things you will no longer have room for losers like your ex, and it will be his loss!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2010): You know it is a mistake to take him back. He is stringing you along with the things he says, but he isn't doing anything at all to indicate that he wants to be with you. Actions speak louder than words, and his actions should be telling you that he is playing you.
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