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writes: I've been with my boyfriend now for almost two years- he is 10 years older than me. Over the past month or so, he's been very distant with me, bringing his work home with him, having little digs at me and generally not the man i fell in love with. the sex is out of the question- we never have it anymore and im thinking about ending it. do you think i should? I still love him madly but im so confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2006): Hey, you definitely need to get working on this now. Don't get needy either. That will only push him away. You need to first take care of yourself. Do not loose your identity in this relationship. Get independent and take care of yourself first. Do not depend upon someone else to make you feel good about yourself. Then when you're ready, comfront him about the issue, remember to not be needy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2006): get out now he'll just hurt u
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (19 January 2006):
 From what you are saying what is happening at work seems to be the problem here or could it be your financial situation? I would say that is the most likely cause of his distance. I think you need to find out what is going on here as it seems to be something that he feels he cant currenttly share with you. Is he in a stressful occupation or his job maybe under threat?
One other option might be to organise an evening of relaxation for you both. Make it sensous and calming and plan it around an activity you both enjoy. Also a weekend away might be an idea. Anything that takes his focus off of work and puts it back on you two. Of course whether you end it is your choice but maybe if you try the above there is a hope that the flame of your relationship might be rekindled.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (19 January 2006):
 After you two have a nice long chat about your relationship you'll know what needs to be done. Start talking.
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