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writes:I'm really conflicted. I had a relationship with a cousin several months ago,(and don't say gross or w/e, I'm adopted), anyway and I never really got over it. I still like him but he has a girlfriend now that I was dumped for. I don't know what to do. Every time I see him I feel really sad and talking with him is almost impossible since my voice gives away my emotions. What can I do to get through this?
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reader, AgonyAuntBlondiee  +, writes (1 September 2009):
 I know its very cliched to say "but only time will heal the pain". Many of us have been in your shoes, remained in love when the object of our affection did not return the feelings. It's hard but we have lived to tell the tale. Try spending more time with your friends, I found this really helped me through my last difficult break up as it's good to have people around who you are sure won't leave you. Maybe you should talk to him and tell him that you still really want to remain close, even though your emotions will show, its best not to bottle things up. But just enjoy your life, there is plenty more fish in the sea.
Hope this helps :)
AgonyAuntBlondiee x
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