A
female
age
26-29,
*ngelsrock18
writes:alright, me and this guy have been dating for about 9 months, i recently broke up with him about 2 weeks ago. he was a major sweetie but could be a dick when he has his moments i guess you could say. i broke up with him because my friend always convices me too and then it gets to my head, well this time i really hurt him and he said he doesn't wanna talk to me and stuff but he still talks to me and sometimes says he loves me, the thing is i never see him we don't live in the same town anymore which doens't change feelings but still, i don;'t know what to do to win him back :/
View related questions:
broke up Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, AgonyAuntBlondiee  +, writes (2 September 2009):
 You are welcome and good luck :)
AgonyAuntBlondiee x
A
female
reader, angelsrock18 +, writes (1 September 2009):
angelsrock18 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you!
...............................
A
female
reader, AgonyAuntBlondiee +, writes (1 September 2009):
You need to learn to be more independent. You left your boyfriend because you were so heavily influenced by what other people thought and said, but it is you alone who has to deal with the consequences. Try to listen to your heart before you take the decision to end a relationship, not someone else's. I've done this before so I feel heart sorry for you, I know how it feels to make a mistake.
I can see where your ex-boyfriend is coming from. He's hurt, the emotions are still raw, he needs time to come to terms with the break up and what has happened before the pair of you jump back into a relationship. Make clear your feelings to him then give him time and space to make his choice.
If you love him you must let him know and give him space also if he wants it, otherwise you will never know how things could have developed.
Hope this helps :)
AgonyAuntBlondiee x
...............................
|
