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I still have a bedwetting problem at my age. What can I do?

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Question - (28 May 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 May 2011)
A age 41-50, * writes:

HELLO AUNTS

I have an issue of burns in my inner thighs, yesterday my girlfriend noticed the burns while have some oral fun with her, she asked me how did u get burns near your penis balls and inner thighs, I did not mention about it at first, actually I got these burns when I was 8 years old by my step mother, she tried to help me to stop bed wetting, she used to take me to toilet at night before going to bed, even though I was unable to control and I pee in the bed, my 14 year old sister complained to mom, we both used to share the bed, I told my sister I will not do this next time please do not tell mom, but one fine day she got vexed of my bed wetting gave me a burn in my inner thigh , my girl friend did not noticed before, but when I shaved my pubic hair it was noticeable I was given 2 burns , due to this I got frightened and I was unable to stop bed wetting, but how will I tell my girl friend about this, I feel shy to tell her, at first I refused to her, then she spoke to her friend about the burns, her friend called me and advised me to tell the truth to her she is elder in age, so I told her the matter now she is refusing me, she came to know that still I am bed wetting at times may be 6 or 7 times a month at night, please tell me how to solve the matter. She is not in the mood of speaking to me, I m so disappointed the she had discussed with her friend, but she is goods and obedient she used to discuss every thing happened in her life. But I hided this matter I also feel guilt not to tell her at first attempt of her , please help, please advise me can I use any adult diaper, or something else, please need as many answers as possible

Hope you all will help me

Thank you

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A male reader, Problem.helper United States +, writes (29 May 2011):

Problem.helper agony auntHypnotherapy !!

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A female reader, kylieekristina United States +, writes (29 May 2011):

kylieekristina agony auntIf she truly cares about you she will stand by you while you work through this, if she doesnt then take it as a way to get someone shallow and un-nuturing girl out of your life.

I am not a doctor , but I think that if you seek some counceling regarding what happened to you, with the burns and bed wetting, it will be a big step in the right direction.

And have you tried cutting down your liquid intake after a certain time? I know it sounds silly but my dog was having accidents in the house while i slept at night untill I started putting his water dish up at 6pm and taking it back down in the morning.

Don't dehydrate yourself or anything but try to watch how much you drink at night....pay attention to what time you wake up wet, (if you wake up) and the last time you drank something.

Also see a medical doctor and make sure you don't have any medical problems....urinary track infections or a weak bladder may be the culprate.

Don't sweat the girl, you're young, and have lots of time to find the right one. Someday I hope you will look back at this and her and be glad they are both in your past. Good Luck

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A male reader, a-g55 United Kingdom +, writes (28 May 2011):

a-g55 agony auntHypnotherapy is very effective!

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