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I slept with my friends crush, help!

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Question - (27 August 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 August 2006)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

Hey,

Me and my best friends' biggest crush (pete) had sex!

I know i shouldn't have done it but ive been single for 2 years and ive had 2 boyfriends but my best friend has had no boyfriends and shes had the biggest crush on pete ever and she still has feelings for him.

So i decided i would start talking to him and i did just to get to know what he likes and if my friend liked the same thing and if they were good together and if they were then i would have got them together but she knew and she appreciated it so much but one day he called me over to watch dvd's and i invited her with me and i told him i brought along a friend. he was okay with it and they both sat next to each other they looked like the perfect couple (she has hazel eyes and black hair and a perfect curvy body)and (he has blonde/brown hair and green eyez and muscly figure) so i decided to leave them together alone hoping they would ask one another out. so i asked him where his room was and just sat in his room and left them together but i heard him coming up and he went into the bathroom. and when he came out i was there and i seduced him into having sex with me because i hated being single, i coukd tell he didnt want it but something must've stopped him from leaving. we used protection. the next day i asked my friend where she had gone and why she left she said she had a phone call and had to leave but she didnt seem upset and she gave me the biggest hug ever for helping her get with her crush of 5 years and i was devastated inside of what i had dont the day before.

what shall i say, how will she ever forgive oete again? how will she ever forgive me again?

please help, for her sake xoxo

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A female reader, bonym United Kingdom +, writes (27 August 2006):

bonym agony auntMy dear, I know that you know what you did was awful and deceitful and very very wrong. I am a bit confused though, just enlighten me,is your friend now with Pete and does she know you had sex? If so, you need to start winning her trust back. Ask yourself deep down why did you do what you did? Just because you were single for 2 years did not mean that you had to sleep with Pete, there are plenty more men you could have slept with. All you can do now is be a friend to your friend and just stay away from Pete, you will find someone eventually. Take care. xXx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2006):

It sounds like you are not a very happy person and that you take delight in going after the guys your "best friend" happens to fancy to make booster your ego.

It sounds like your friend is a very attractive young woman and you are envious of this as you do not consider yourself her "equal" when it comes to the look department.

You are not a very good friend if you could go after a boy she has declared she has an intrest in.

You had sex with him for ill reasons.

Is she upset at you both? How did she find out? Or is this what you are hoping for should you decide to tell?

I think you want to tell so that you can get enjoyment from their pain.

Please get some therapy to address why you would want to do such things.

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