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writes: I really like this guy stu he has been asking for my number for months i finally gave him it and we started texting he was being dead sweet,i went round his and we slept together and every friday when we are out i go back to his.but now he never texts back and ignores me i really like him and wanna b with him he has been out of a 7 year relationship for a year now and i only ever get to see him if he dosnt go home with someone else, the other week we were in pub and he has kissing on with someone else but looking at me i dunno wat to do im mad about him and cant move on till i know.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (19 October 2006):
 I agree with Irish49 - leave the guy alone and stop going places where he is hanging out in the 'hope' that he will take you home. You deserve someone to treat you special and you cannot change other people - that means you cannot change him into being your boyfriend. He either has personal issues or just isn't motivated to have a proper relationship with you - whatever the situation, be strong enough to stop sleeping with him in the hope for something more.
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reader, Acaringear +, writes (18 October 2006):
They are right - you poor thing. But the good news is we have all been through it.. some of us time and time again. The best thing to do is to just forget about him. He's not into you and he is playing games with you. You need to really move on. Rejection can be hard but, its something we all need to deal with from time to time. Anyway ... you sound far too good for him.. fancy looking at you when he is snogging her.. he is a game player and sounds like a tart !
I am praying that you will take our advice and move on.. I know its hard to understand that when you are in a situation..
Forget about him and start looking around again !
Good Luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2006): irish49 is right.. this guy is not REALLY into you.. if a guy is into you, he will adore you every second of his heart beat. move on
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2006): Sorry to say this, but Stu is 'just not that into you" , dear. When two people connect, they do anything to be together and communicate. Stu is not doing this. You are immobilized in a very self-defeating situation, here. You need to be strong and start doing everything you can to move forward. Right now, you are stopping yourself from accepting the reality of this situation. Leave Stu alone and learn from this life experience. Good luck and take care.
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