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30-35,
*rans Am Man
writes:Well I really don't know what to do. I kinda like two different girls, I say like because I'm not in love with either one of them and I don't believe in saying it until you mean it. Anyway we'll call the first one C, she's beautiful, she's funny, she's... well she's a lot of things. I've known her my whole life (or at least her whole life) she's one of my best friends in the whole world. Her brother, cousin, and I hang out together all the time, every weekend we go to the mall and then back to their grandmother's house and we stay all weekend there. I guess it just happened from spending so much time together. The problem is, I can't tell her. two summers ago i told her how i felt and it completely changed things. We're just now getting to be back the way we were and that's only because she doesn't know that I like her now.We'll call the other one L, she too is beautiful. She's great, she likes to laugh a lot, she likes to have fun, she's unique in her own way. I've known her for about two years. You see I used to date her sister when we were younger, but that's ancient history. The problem here is... L broke up with me 6 months ago. We dated for about 7 months and then she decided to end it. When I was with her I was happy. I went to her house every Saturday and pretty much just hung out. Sometimes we would watch movies and other times we would just sit outside under the stars and talk. We would always go on long walks around the neighborhood and then grab something to eat. I still talk to her at school and I know she would say yes if I asked her out again. Her friends are all kinda hinting around that she likes me. I'm just not sure what to do.
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reader, nE3dH3Lp??  +, writes (8 March 2010):
List the things you know about each girl. Like
"lucy" "Jen"
likes blue likes cats
used to live in america hates sweet things
ect
the one with the most things you know about for exapmle if you have more things for "lucy " then ask her out x good luck x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 March 2010):
L has already broken it off with you before. Don't go back to an ex. If you can't choose, it means that neither girl is for you. When you meet the right girl, you'll know it. But at this moment, I'm not sure either girl is right for you. One's an ex you're not over, and if you're not over this ex, really you can go out with the other one because you might hurt her (even if initially you don't mean to)
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