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writes:i work for my mam and dad in the pub we run, and i get along well with the customers there is this one customer in perticular that i like and he likes me but he is 28 i no that is a problem but i dont mind, the thing is he slept with my mams best mate and my mam told me that she would never let me get with him because the image of him and her mate will always come in to her head whenever im with him i realy like this lad and want to know what i can do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2007): What is the world coming to? Back in my youthful day, I would never even consider a friends guy let alone my Mother's or her friends guy as a romantic interest. It's just too tacky. What ever happened to honor and integrity let alone you are not legal of age. You won't have anything in common with the guy and he won't fill Daddy's shoes.
Just listen to your mother on this one. Love and trust in her above some dude that just wants to get into your knickers.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (19 July 2007):
 You are 16-17. He is 28. Depending where you are in the world, it is illegal. Listen to your mother.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, lisa3121 +, writes (19 July 2007):
your're at the age where your parents are loosing control over what you do. i think this is your mums personal choice for you is that you dont go out with him but lets be honest its your choice. you're the one who's going to be going out with this guy not her. there is a saying "not on your own doorstep" and maybe your mother feels it would be innapropriate because of the connection. I know from personal experience that parents can find it difficult to let their children make their own decisions. my advice is to make sure theres nothing more to your mums decision ie that hes not been up to things and then if youre sure you want to go out with him tell your mum how you feel and maybe once she sees youre serious she will change your mind, but ive never thought i needed prmission from my mum to go out with any of my boyfriends (one was 16 years older than me so dont let age stop you)good luck! x
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reader, HisWifey07  +, writes (19 July 2007):
well obviously there is a reason for her not wanting you to do him maybe he has an STD so maybe you need to ask your mother again if you haven't before the reason for you not being allowed to go with him, maybe its good reason and maybe you can try to work something out with your parents but like they say you can replace a guy but you can never replace your life !
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