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writes:hi im a little confused right now, so thank you for taking the time to read this. my best guy friend last night told me that he liked me more than a friend. but the problem is that i dont like him that way, id love to because he's so amazing! but i can't fake the way i feel or force myself to feel for him in that way. We talked about it and both said we dont want to lose our friendship, but he still seemed upset, and ended his last text just "kk c u 2moz" and thats it, usually he's not like that. he usually texts me during the night if he thinks he's been short with me or upset me but nothing, and he hasnt replied to my text today and he usually always texts me back. i really dont want to lose him. what can i do? please help...hannah xxx
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reader, xLovex +, writes (24 August 2008):
It's good to hear that everything went well... I was in a similar situation but I had no one to ask - I wish I found this website earlier loool
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): hi xLovex
thankyou for you advice it was great!
i talked to him last night and i explaind how i felt and told him everything that i told you, and he explaind that the reason that he was off with me was becuse he felt a bit weird and he felt like a "jackass" and thought he had done something wrong. he was scared about how i felt becuase he thought he had upset me and he didnt want to make me feel uncomftable (which he hadnt, i just felt a little weird). He also told me that he didnt text me back becuase he dropped his phone down the stairs.
he has promised me that nothing will change betweeen us.
thankyou again for the adivce!
love hannah xxxxx
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reader, xLovex +, writes (23 August 2008):
This is a really tricky situation
All I could advise is don't change the way you act with him because it will make him feel embarrised knowing you feel uncomfortable.
Also he may just be a bit upset and maybe just feels a bit disappointed. Give him some space and wait for him to be ready to contact you.
Remember it will be difficult for him to have to keep his feelings for you bottled up so remember just be a little bit concious of that.
Good Luck and keep posted xxxx
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