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froggy69
writes:i want to have a threesome with my husband and a girl. i've never done this. how do i go about it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): Forget using a friend or someone you know.
It just makes things awkward.
Find an Escort Agency, a reputable one not one of the dodgy back-alley affairs. It's expensive, but its worth it not to catch crabs or Gonhorrea.
The paid escort is trained not to take any of this shit personally. So it will still be awild romp for all you three, but at the end she will take her money, bid you both good luck and farewell, and you will never see her again.
You don't get that with friends.
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reader, bfly36 +, writes (8 May 2008):
 first ask yourself are u willing to take the risk of the aftermath of this. Think if this is something you really want to do or is it for him, if its for him, you may regret it. I have met others who have done this and it has affected there relationship then again its your choice, just really think about it. If you have a good relationship you can do other things to spark up the romance or the mood. Good Luck!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): being here is a good start. My advice is to invite a female YOU know. Dont invite someone he knows, and please, don't invite strangers-unwanted disease. Make sure you lay down personal ground rules. My husband and I did it, under the condition he dosnt have intercourse with her, strickly oral. Heaven forbid she accidently got pregnant. If you have rules like these, this can also help avoid emotional meltdowns in the future. We females have a tendency to want to please our partners and deal with the emotional stress later, which will destroy your relationship. good luck, have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): I've never done this before myself so feel to ignore my suggestions
Make rules aka he must cum with you, or only kiss you on the mouth, be sure to let him know what you are comfortable with and what you are not. As well as let the woman involved know any boundaries you may have. Also ask if they have boundaries and be sure and respect them. I think that's probably the most important thing.
Make sure everyone involved is totally comfortable.
Make sure your husband understands clearly that while you are having a threesome it doesn't mean he has permission to at a later date go and have sex with her or any other woman/man for that matter. Aka its not permission for infidelity.
While many guys say they want this, some don't make sure he really does and see if he is feeling in anyway jealous about the situation
I would not drink or do any type of substance to get in the mood, if you do you may end up with a husband doing things you didn't want and then blaming it on the drink.
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