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writes: last night me and my partner had sex. i felt like i was about to cum but something weird happened. Its very embarrassing to admit but instead of cuming massively i urinated... is this normal... I doubt it! someone advise me please!! i don't know how to act around him!! Reply to this Question
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reader, mystify +, writes (13 March 2006):
 this has happened to me a couple of times and i know that its completely normal, women can lose control over these muscles when orgasming , try a change of position if it makes either your or your partner uncomfortable. but i know that it dosent bother my husband :)
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reader, juliagulia  +, writes (6 March 2006):
 It could be female ejaculation, or it is true that some women do pee a little sometimes when they come. It is totally normal and I know it might have been embarrassing for you, but I doubt your guy was caring too much when you were feeling good enough to do that! He must be pretty pleased with himself! Just relax and go with the flow... (sorry, I had to!) But seriously, if you are concerned, you could check with your gyno and see what they have to say about it. I am sure they will put your mind at ease.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (6 March 2006):
 I dont think you actually urinated in the true sence of the word, when a woman comes sometimes they squirt a liquid substance and it can get fairly wet it is the female equivilant of ejeculation and is very normal.
Enjoy it as it means sex with your bloke must be very very good and he is a lucky bloke.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2006): Nice! That is unusual! You're sure it's urine? I think you should ask him how he feels about that. However, I don't think it's a big deal. If it is indeed urine, maybe that's your way of having an orgasm! 8]
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2006): From what I've read, thats a common issue, particularly among women so do not worry! Apparently, females can lose a lot of control over their muscle that holds urine when climaxing, which can result in what happened to you.As far as things goes with regards to how to act around him, if you are in a relationship with this guy, he should totally understand and won't be freaked out by what happened. After all, it wasn't your fault - and if it really did bother him, maybe he isn't worth your time...
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