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36-40,
*aiveada
writes:I always feel like i attract men that only want to have fun with me. There was a professor who is married that tried to get into my pants he never did. then there was a thirty year old that only wanted to get into my pants. I just want to know why i cant find a man that that can take me seriously? can it be my behavior? Please help me.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (4 November 2009):
It's okay to flirt, but it's about how you do it. As long as you put very minimal to no comments regarding sexual inudendo, then they won't be so quick to think that you're good for one thing. I flirt with some guys all the time, but it's just feeding their ego, I don't make sexual remarks because I don't want them to get the wrong idea.
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reader, naiveada +, writes (4 November 2009):
naiveada is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank You all for giving me adivse. I dress classy but i am flirt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2009): Stop thinking your only choices are guys who make aggressive unsolicited passes at you.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (4 November 2009):
It would help if you were specific about your behavior. Do you think you behave in a particular way that would lead men to believe you just want to have "fun?"
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reader, Multiple Orgasms  +, writes (4 November 2009):
I have been a sex addict for a long time. And I can tell you that you give the wrong signs. How are you going to dress up in a mini skirt jogging... and not expect him to look at your boobs. Why dress slutty and not expect to get hit on. Your obviously a magnet and attractive. But why not try being the exact opposite and that may solve you're problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2009): I seem to attract girls regardless. You must be pretty cute.
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