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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and D have been texting and talking on the phone since three years now. Since 1 yr we are in touch on the phone. We have grown so close that I have become too addicted to him. I think about him too much, but these days he cuts off all connections with me for a day or two and then he calls me around the third day and everything is fine again. He ignores me when I miss him, and I get to talk to him only when he needs me. I never wanted us to be in this gay relationship, i asked him again and again, are u sure u love me, he said he really did love me, now I cant help it. I am afraid he is not in love with me and he is just sayin that because he has pity on me. He is a nice guy, I love him a lot, i want him to be happy with me. I dont want him to fake it.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 January 2012):
 It does not sound to me like he will commit himself to you. You need to talk to him and ask him what it is he wants from you. It sounds to me like he is being selfish and just using you as a past time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe havent met since 3months...i live in a different city now. We have been busy. The thing is not whether he is serious or not, i just want to know what are his real feelings about me and if he has no feelings at all why is he faking it to me. I love him, i wish could have him all to myself.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (14 January 2012):
To be honest it sounds to me like he will contact you when he is looking for a bit off attention but he is not there for you when you need him. Does not sound to me like he is serious about you. Do you both actually ever meet up face to face and spend quality time together, or is this a relationship with your phone only?
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