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writes:I feel in love with a guy who got married the second time and we began to have sex when even he was in his honey moon.we have been having sex for more than two years and I am a married women,too.but I found out that he has another girl friend who I am sure he has sex with all the time,too. He lies and also a bullshitter. everyone knows this at work, but I try my best to forget about him,but I am so addicted to him for sex. Now I can't sleep often and I have to take sleeping pills all the time.and I lost so much because of this.I need help,friends.Please,please.I can't control myself and I get angry all the time.I am going crazy.
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reader, nunununu +, writes (21 January 2008):
Hi,all my friends
Thank you so much for your advices.Thank you for taking the time to answer my questions.Sorry I did't give you feedback so quickly.becuase I didn't know how and where to write it.I finally found it now.Thank God!Sometimes I am so dum.Thank you all deep down from my heart.I feel much better now.Happy New Year to everyone!
Nununu
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reader, shandygirl + ♥, writes (15 January 2008):
 This man has ANOTHER GIRLFRIEND TOO??? Jeez! What a dog! It sounds as though he has his cake & eating it to.
You found out about THIS other girlfriend, but how many others has he had that you DIDN'T find out about.
I am not being mean... but If I were you, I would worry about catching AIDS. It still exists, ya know?
On the other hand ... Honey, you are a married woman. Do you still love your husband? If so, maybe you should start focusing on him. If not, ( if you are having an affair, I feel that you do not) Then don't you think that it is time to get out of it, so that you can meet someone (single) who makes you happy?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 January 2008):
 Go for a holiday if you have the time, to relax your mind.
Get away from that place that will remind you of him. If possible, get another job or get transferred to another location..
Demonise him and you will grow to hate him enough to kill your urge for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008): Oh honey, he's a loser, a sexy loser, but still a loser. You need to think about keepers. A loser doesn't care much about what he's doing to the woman in his life because he's focused on getting his own pleasure. A keeper cares more about what's going on in your life and wants more from you than what's in your panties.
Dump the loser, ignore him. He's a WOMANIZER and you're just one of his victims--thank heavens you're not the poor woman married to this man--take a cold shower, seduce your husband in a really sexy way and focus on the KEEPERS-- I do hope your husband falls into this category. Or maybe you're a loser not a keeper?
Think with your head here!
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reader, baby duck + ♥, writes (14 January 2008):
 Yes, you know the answer. You are addicted to him/sex with him. You are a co-dependent personality and it shows because you are willing to be used by him. Put co-dependent personality in your browser and start reading about it. You can heal yourself but it's going to take a lot of work.
Even your body is protesting your brain's decisions.
There are people in your shoes that don't realize the truth. That you do shows that you are capable of healing yourself.
Do you want to fix your marriage? That's a biggy, which ever way you go, and it will consume your time. Your husband may not be interested, either.
I think that if you see this man at work, you should get another job.
Think of him as a deadly cancer that you have to cut out of your life. There is no way you can just quit him ... you need a 'no contact' ruling.
Best wishes.
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