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*saidgooday
writes:i am dating this amazing guy, i am completely crazy about him. the only problem is his health. unfortunately my boyfriend has testicular cancer. i am so worried about him, i don't know what to do. i can't even be with him right now so there's nothing i know of that i can do to help him. it's driving me insane i am so worried about him. i was wondering if anyone knew of any ways to relieve his pain or help him get through this because i honestly have no idea how to help. he is this sweet amazing guy and he doesn't deserve this in any way. if you have any advice at all please reply to my question. if there's anything you know of that could help my boyfriend i'll take it. his chances of surviving just keep getting worse and worse. please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, kaytie-babey  +, writes (22 January 2010):
 You need to be strong for him at these tough times.
I agree with the love letter: write about...
when/how you met,
up until this moment now,
all the funny and good things, leave out the bad parts!
and all you can do is hope for the best now,
i really hope he gets well, xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2010): Hi isnt there any way you could pay him a visit? Im sure that would cheer him up. Failing that do as CaringGuy suggests and write him a letter full of love, it will help keep his spirits up. I hope he recovers bless him x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 January 2010):
At this time, all you can do is be at the end of the phone if he wants to talk. There are going to be times like this where all you can do is wait, and you're going to be feeling worse and worse because he won't talk or won't be able to. Be at the other end of the phone for him. Also, send him a lovely long love letter telling him he's a great guy and that you're there for him. That will mean a lot to him.
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