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writes:Hi everyone. There's this guy who I've liked on and off for the past two months or so. He recently broke up with his gf of a month. Since they broke up, he's been texting me and talking to me way more. He's initiated all but one of these convos. We also hung out at the mall for a few hours today, just us. Yesterday night we were texting, and he mentioned that he was texting this girl that he "sorta liked". I'm used to flightiness with this guy towards girls. He talked about her when we went to the mall too. He also mentioned that one of my friends was pestering him, asking if he liked me. At that point, I was almost ready to just get it off my chest and tell him that I like him - but there's one HUGE catch - his girlfriend broke up with him FOUR days ago. His girlfriend also happens to be one of my friends, and she told me herself that she didn't mind me liking him. Does anyone have any advice for this situation?
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reader, TeenageDreamgirl +, writes (8 January 2012):
TeenageDreamgirl is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you VSAddict!
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (8 January 2012):
 There's nothing wrong with liking him since you can't help how you feel. But don't tell him how you feel just yet. Give him some time to actually get over her because 4 days is nothing. Even though she told you it was okay, bring it up with her once more, and ask her how she's feeling, why she feels it's ok for you to possibly date him, and ask if doing so might have a negative impact on your friendship. If she responds positively and tells you it's ok again, then tell him how you feel. But you should give him some time, even if it seems he may be over her.
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