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writes: Please help me cupid. Im 16 years old and i think i might be in love with a 15 year old. This is because like over a month ago i used to see this girl and talk to her alot and we would link arms, hold hands, hug and put our arms around each other. we were practically best friends we could trust each other with nearly everything. Just over a month has passed and i haven't spoke to her at all and she doesn't go to my school. I can't stop thinking about her and i really do care for her loads. So am i in love or do i just miss her alot? please help.
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reader, Beautiful_Suicide +, writes (13 April 2006):
 I know how you feel..I recently stopped talking to my best mate who I was in love with and it's driving me mad...but I don't want to push him because then the friendship might be in danger..try ringing her or IMing her and just say like "hey haven't seen you in a while wana hang out some time soon?" chances are she misses you too..it is very hard to be that close to someone of the opposite sex and not fall in love with them..or think you've fallen in love with them..when you see or speak to her again you should know straight away whether it is actually love or not..hope this helped! -- Sass x
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (13 April 2006):
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yet another tricky problem! Has she contacted you? Do you live near each other? Does she have msn? Maybe you could phone/text or just speak to her. Tell her you should meet up and see if she feels the smae way about you too. Let things starighten out in their own time.
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reader, bridget +, writes (12 April 2006):
 Hey there pet...
Well only you can answer the question of being in love or just missing someone.. They both feel similiar but are entirely different..
It doesnt matter what age you are, Everyone deserves the love of someone, whether it be a family member, friend or other person..
I think that because you were so used to talking to this girl and you saw her quite regularly then you got used to her being there and your feelings developed for her..
But now that this has taken a different path and are getting used to her not being there and your pathways are not crossing you are now having difficulty with her not being there...
This is normal your are just having difficulty adapting to a difficult situation for you especially at such a tender age.
My advice to you would be to try and make your paths cross again, If you see her at all, then do make a point in going over and saying hi or start a convo, Im sure she would be glad to see you and speak to you..
Just remember that if she doesnt respond then dont get upset over this as its just supposed to be this way for a reason..
I hope I have helped you any..
Best Regards
Jacqueline
Jac
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reader, princessnikki +, writes (12 April 2006):
 You may be in love. I'm not one to say bad things about young love, i fell in love at 14, but what you are feeling may just be a loss. It could be that you just miss having somebody there for you. If she was there 24/7 with you at first and then she isn't now, it could just be a feeling of loss. Am sure if you give it time and talk to others about it, you will lose this feeling. Or try getting back in touch with this girl and getting together. If you spend time with her again, your true feelings will surface again. Hope this helps
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