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writes:i was in arelationship with my ex for 2 months he lied to me four times so i broke up with him to sort myself out however doing this i found myself attracted to another bloke and we have meet up and gone out. he told me he has fallen in love with me and over the past 3 months my feelings have got stronger towards him but my ex wont leave me to get on with my life and keeps telling me he loves me wants me back and will change im so confused what do i do..
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (5 December 2007):
 I think you should stick with the partner that you are with now, it sounds like you have got something good going on there. He has fallen in love with you, and your feelings are getting stronger for him. Sometimes in breakups somepeople can't bear to see there ex partners happy and dating someone else, and creates enormous feeling of jealousy. You don't mention what your ex lied to you about, but he did it 4 times, and were obviously big enough lies for you to finish the relationship. So if he lied to you 4 times, then the likellhood is he will again. Stick with your new guy, and treat the relationship with you ex as a chapter in your life that has passed, water under the bridge so to speak, and get on with you life. Over time he will come to accept that you have moved on, and will himself, hopefully!!!.
Take care, and good luck x
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