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*rincessSmithee
writes:I was talking to this boy on myspace, we both liked each other so we met up. Hes PERFECT, good looking, great personality, same interests. and i had a great time. Although there is no spark!!Ive met him like 4 times since then and still no chemisty/spark and weve been cuddling and getting close ( No kissing though dont want to lead him on even more).Its hurting me SO much. ive been crying and stuff cuase i cant bear tellign him ,he treats me like a princess and really really likes me, but i cant feel that spark, or butterflies, or were hes all you can think about. Yano those feeling when you like someone :( I like him more as friend i wish i didnt but i do. What do i do , im constantly crying and worried about the sitution. i was thinking about kissing him to see if there was a spark but that woudl lead him on if i felt the same, and id break hsi heart. PLEASE HELP! IM 17 SO IS HE.
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reader, PrincessSmithee +, writes (24 August 2008):
PrincessSmithee is verified as being by the original poster of the question i kind of want to kiss him to see if there is a spark , what do you think :( ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): If you still aren't feeling anything after hanging out with him 4 times, there probably won't ever be anything there. These things can't be forced, and the harder you try, the less of a spark there will be. Maybe he's a perfect guy, but maybe he's not perfect for you. It would probably be for the best to end it now, before you lead him on any further. I've been in a situation like this before, and I tried extremely hard to like him, but when it comes down to it, it's either there or it's not, and I'm pretty sure in your case, it's not. Just let him down as easily as you can, but that's all you can really do.
Good luck!
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