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female
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30-35,
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writes:There's this lad on msn and he's apparently 'into me' yet we've never met in person nor even spoke on the phone. Anyway, he wants to meet me (we've only spoken on msn about 2/3 times - long convo's though!) but i aren't sure whether to, he seems a decent enough guy but i'm just scared he'll make a move on me (i'm not experienced you see) plus, this'll make you laugh - i don't even like him that much and he keeps saying he loves me, i say it back but don't mean it! I duno what my question is really lol. Just need some advice! Tah x
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (26 June 2008):
 Word of caution, just because he's posing as a boy your age, he could be anyone -- even a 45 yr old rapist who's due to get out of prison any day and he's looking for his victim. The worst types of deception comes from on-line relationships because people tend to believe what they read and you can be anyone you want on line. It's a dangerous world for any girl to experiment with. My advise is to stick to boys you can bump into at school and put your eyeballs on in person. Any pervert can flash a photo of someone else on his webpage and make you think he's someone else while he lures you away from your family and your home. At least the boys at school are for real and you know where they live. I would stop communicating with this guy immediately. Good luck sweetie and may you never be front page news of any tragic story.
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reader, advice lady +, writes (26 June 2008):
I think you need to let this boy know your definately not interested as your only leading the poor guy on! Like you said you've only spoke a couple of times on msn so you dont really know eachother, but if you still feel like meeting this guy then make sure you take a friend with you and make sure you meet in a place familiar to you and close to home. But like i said, if you dont like the guy just tell him straight. I hope this has helped! good luck.
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reader, Tremor +, writes (26 June 2008):
 I can't say that last bit made me laugh. It's stupid and cruel to tell him you 'love' him if you don't. Don't lead the lad on - if you aren't interested, make it clear to him. Don't mess him about like that.
If you are unsure about meeting him, then don't. And if you do decide to, bring a friend and meet in a public place. Safety first, and all that.
Good luck to you.
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