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writes: I don't know whats wrong with me. I'm 16 years old, and I have had 3 relationships in my life. Each lasting no longer than a month. From then, each and every time I have come close to a relationship, I always mess up. Like, I cease up and don't know what to do and end up losing a friend and everything is horrible. Could someone maybe point me in the right direction please? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2006): Well you are 16 and trying to sort things out, like who do you like, what do you like in another "partner", what attributes you look for, to better prepare you for your future and how to discern who will make a good husband/life partner.
This is the time to casually date and discover other people as well as yourself.
I wouldn't take this to heart.
Teens that stay in "long term" relationships become sexually activer sooner and with this will come all sorts of issues such as trust, relating sex to love, std's.
Just take things slow and be happy to be young and full of promise of a bright future.
I agree that most adults still don't know what they are looking for and sex just complicates things.
Take care of yourself first.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (20 August 2006):
 True closeness and commitment is hard. It's perhaps the hardest thing in a relationship. Don't worry too much about your experiences so far... they are very normal and natural. Just see each relationship as a learning experience, and make sure you always treat girls with dignity, respect and care.
It took me until aged 33 to finally figure out how to really have a 'real' relationship. And I know plenty of men my age who are still a long way from figuring it out. The fact that you're even thinking about it at 16 (rather than just thinking with your cock) shows that you are doing pretty well.
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