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writes: I haven't heard from the man I love in over a week. I mentioned a commitment to him because he said he loved me and wanted me to move to another state where he lives. I haven't heard from him in over a week he doesn't return my calls. Will I hear from him or should I just write him off? Reply to this Question
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reader, becky05 +, writes (5 July 2005):
Sounds like commitment scared him. Try and get through to him for a few more days then give up, if he wants you, he knows where you are.
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reader, terri.g +, writes (13 June 2005):
without bein harsh he obviously dont feel the same. dont worry he will come crawling back but i wouldnt av it if i was you. my ex used to ignor me for days,on and off and they do understand the worries that go through our heads.men think that sayin what you want to hear will keep u happy n it will if u let it.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (13 June 2005):
 He may have decided to think things through... its a big step for men to decide to be with one girl.. he says he loves you and suddenly went cold, hes probably scared of what will happen if you guys move together, call him up see how he is... chat openly with him and see where things head.. he may just be getting a bit scared, which is only natural, he may not want to get hurt, so ease his fears by speaking with him and chat about all the things you could get up to together. But do call him, he probly just needs for you to let him be alone and then he can see clearly, get in contact and take things slowly and found out what he would like to do from here on in.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2005): My suggest is call him, if he has a voice mail tell him to let you know if he wants to still be with you or not, so that that uncomfortable situation can end for both of you. Try email, is much easier for a person that is hiding to reply since wont be talking directly to you. I'm telling you because in my experience... I was the one hiding!
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