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writes:I have a boyfriend that i love very much, and would die for. We've been together for 9 months and been through alot together. U would think we were normal but were not, because he's my ex boyfriends older brother. i left my ex because he messed around on me wit my bestfriend and that wasnt the big deal, it was the fact tht the night i left him, i didnt tell him why, i just left and he didnt even come after me. My ex's brother and i were friends abd we fell in love with eacher, we took the risk cause we couldnt take not being together. Me and my ex are cool now, and he tells me all the time how he regrets that he never came for me, so now we're jus best friends. So now heres the problem... I love my boyfriend but i think i love his brother, my ex, too. And they both love me. I dont know what to do. I think about my bf all day non stop but when im with his brother, my ex, its like my bf never existed, and im so happy with him. I jus wish i could have the both of them
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reader, Serpico +, writes (25 April 2012):
This is one of the stranger posts Ive read here. I have four brothers, and I cannot for a moment think of chasing the same girl as them. Would never even occur to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe first person who answered this youre incorrect. Obviously this girl jus happened to get caught between the two by accident. And no she did not get with the brother for jealousy cause she cleary keeps say how much she lovers her current boyfriend and that it happened because they fell for eachother. Who ever answered this question first has the scenario completely twister, you should try rereading a question before you answer. And to answer the original question, honey just pick one, if you cant just maybe you should seperate yourself from them for a little while to really figure out what you want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2012): " I jus wish i could have the both of them" are you for real? sorry , try to remember that your ex has messed up with your friend, remember why you guys are no longer together.
" i just left and he didnt even come after me"
Hope you're not with his brother just to make him jealous cause this it's just wrong, and shouldn't be done.
if you want a solution for your problem: " I jus wish i could have the both of them" a ménagè a trois the only one scenario I think this could happen, not saying you should do it though. But if you do want practical advice, pick one of them and stick with him, but if you're still pining for the other than just be done with both, it'll be better for everybody involved.
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