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anonymous
writes: How do i act to this, i love my boy friend so much, but he has been having affairs with my friend, he sometimes tells me that i should give him time to think of what he wants in life. he has even been accused of having had sex wit my sister which i still don't know whether its true.i keep on running back to him but feel stupid of doing this.help please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): I can hardly believe that you think so little of yourself that you would accept this abuse, childishness, pathetic unintelligent rubbish that this boy is giving you. Do you think you have a hope of finding a partner for life, if you think this is the deal that you have to accept? There is no way that this person is a good bet and if you hope to change him and "make him see the light" to make yourself feel better you are on a hiding to nothing. Except lower and lower self esteem, more and more bad relationships and damage. Look at your face carefully in the mirror. See that girl? That skin houses your soul, your hopes, aspirations, your talents and dreams. It is YOU. Look at you face and tell that girl you love her and will protect her. Kick that stupid underformed, slimy creep out. Let him get his kicks where he likes but not with YOU. You must wait for an intelligent, kind, attractive boy to love you. He would not harm a hair on your head and would defend you in any situation. That is what you deserve and NOTHING less. Don't be like me and wait until you are 45 to figure it all out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): So STOP running back to him already!
He says he wants you to give him time to think about what he wants in life?
Okaaayyy.......YOU make the decision for him: give him all the time in the world - for instance, starting right now and for the next hundred years!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007): run like hell and get away from him now. be brave and stand on your own two feet. Why do you need this sort of crap! Come on girl, stop letting the side down.take carexx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007): -foRgive* sorry x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007): He cheats once, fogive. He cheats twice, his last warning. He cheats a third time, slap him round the face and go. It may hurt but leave him and move on. A leopard never changes its spots so will he?
Good Luck xxxxxxxxxxx
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