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anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year, we moved in together 4 months ago and we have been bickering quite alot. When we are good together we are great. Anyway we had a row and he backed his bags and went to stay with his parents 1 1/2 hours drive away, when we spoke he told me that he will not be coming back but he loves me and wants a future with me but where he is. I have 2 children who are both in school and he has too. By the way is has recently lost his job and said that where I live holds too many bad memories for him as he has an ex-wife here. I was prepared to move me and my children to where he is and the other day we had a slight falling out and now he has said that it is over. Do I just walk away as in my opinion it seems that he just runs everytime things get rough, and I feel that I need someone a little more stronger and reliable. What do you think? I love him with all my heart and a few weeks ago he told me that he loves me and had thought about proposing and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. Im confused
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2007): You say he thought about proposing to you a few weeks ago and spending the rest of your lives together. However, notice that he DIDN'T ACTUALLY ASK you to marry him!
Since then, when you had a fight, he packs his bags and goes back to his parents. Then tells you he will not be returning, even though he still loves you. THEN a "slight" falling out, and now he's saying its all over.
Really, is it worth it? He may have SOME feelings for you, but obviously he doesn't "love you with all his heart" the way you tell us you feel about him, does he?
I don't think there's much prospect here any more. Let him go.......
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reader, ilikenight  +, writes (7 June 2007):
 Find someone with a backbone. He seems too much of a mommy's boy. You need a man to take care of you, not run away on you.
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