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writes:o dear god you are going to think that i am a right ho but im not honest.i had the most amazing sex this is what happend. i work wid the guy ok and he asked me if i wanted to go for lunch and i said ok not thinking anything of it den he drove us to a hotel now i mean what girl when you pull up at a hotel cant resist it honestly??? so we went to the room and he is also the big boss aswel so we had the whole afternoon to play with.we got in to the hotel room and just ripped off each others clouthes. we had sex everywhere and in every position you can imagine we couldnt keep out hands off each other we were touching and kissing each other in ever part of our body and it just felt so good. we got back to work and acted as nothing had happend. did not mention it to anyone and i thought he was single and also younger so we carried on seeing each other for a few months.den one of my work matestold me that he was maried with 3 children?? it come up in conversation not that i told her and he has a daughter my age. he has told me he will leave his wife as he loves me and wants me but how can i love someone who has done that to his family?? but i love him so do i follow my heart??? and how will his daughter feel me being the same age????? a
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reader, misssassy +, writes (29 January 2009):
misssassy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you 2 you all you have given me the support and courage to stay awayfrom him so thank you
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (29 January 2009):
 Hi,
For how long will he stay away though? if i were you i would have nothing to do with him walk away now do you really want to be the one who is ruining his family? He may well be going through a mid life crisis and when he comes back to reality you might find it is a different man you knew! I really do not feel you can trust him but it is your choice no one else's all we can do is to try and steer you away from being hurt and as Smeedle says he has cheated on his wife with you how long before he cheats on you with a younger model don't allow him to use you!
Gina
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reader, misssassy +, writes (29 January 2009):
misssassy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey guys thank you so much for your replys they have been helpful.he left his wife last night and has tried to make contact with me which i have not responded to. if i had known he was married with children i would never of done this i feel like i have reunied a family.
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (28 January 2009):
 Wake up huni he isnt going to leave his wife and kids for you and even if he did you could never trully trust him because if he has cheated on his wife with you he will cheat on you with someone else.
Just keep away from him he is only gonna hurt you, and taking you to a hotel without your consent knowing you would give into him just makes me think he loves power.
You deserve somone who trully and genuinly loves you not some guy who takes you to a hotel has his way with you and doesnt even tell you he is married and has kids and just assumes you will have sex with him.
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (28 January 2009):
Hi,
Do you honestly think he will leave his wife and 3 children for you? What assurances has he given you and when is he going to tell his wife about you?
I ask this becasue i hope you have asked him !! married men like him do not usually leave their wives/kids i would be wary of his intentions with you i am not saying he will use you but will take a guess he could! your half his age and what older man is going to refuse a young fresh girl in her prime when he could be old enough to be your dad how does that make you feel? I can only see him hurting you and if i were you i would walk away now, you also say you both work together and he is your boss well i hope he wont make your life hard cause your refusing his advances!! He is married with 3 kids one your age! dont think she would be too happy knowing that her dad was having sex with a girl her age do you? walk away now before you get hurt he and you have both been very disrespectful to his wife/family and i think to do the decent thing you tell him no more cause he is married.
Gina
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reader, smeedle +, writes (28 January 2009):
 Im sorry to tell you this but this boss/ cheating man has just abused his power as your boss, he has fancied you and took you, he promised you the earth and made you feel special, he can do that as he is the boss, has the title and the money, you are an employee and he has crossed a big boundary.
He has lied about the wife and kids and he will continue to lie when it suites, he will never leave his wife and kids and if he did it would cost him a lot of money and he knows that, he has sex with you and a family life with her.
Im sorry to be brutal but to him you are most certainly a bit on the side.
Be very careful as he has the power to sack you if you ever give him an ultimatum or tell anyone within the company. he will get rid of you to stop the wife finding out and that is the harsh realities of having an affair with the boss.
None of this is your fault, falling for his lies and falling in love with him is not your fault but you have to remember he is married and as such is not yours to fall in love with.
Even if he did leave his wife and kids, how long do you think it would be before he cheated on you, there will always be someone younger in his company, someone he views as more fun, prettier etc so ditch him now and do the right thing.
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