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writes:hi im 30 and my boyfriend is 20, we love each other but i dont get along with his family and he dont get along with my family. what should i do? when he was locked up i was the only one there for him not his family. so should i just move on and love him from a far? he says we will always be together he aint going no were a woman with a lot of love to give, but family is in the way....
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reader, kody08 +, writes (13 October 2008):
I am kind of in the same situation as you i love my boyfriend but hate his family, I have been seeing him for 4 years and= am expecting our first child as we speak, this has been an ongoing problem for us since day one and it is not getting ne better sorry to be the bearer of bad news but it has axually gotten worse over the years but our love keeps our relationship strong and we know that they have nothing to do with our relationship. i know that he loves his mom and the rest of his family and i cant expect him to just walk away from them so i bite my tounge when i can and just try to be a loving girlfriend to my BOYFRIEND not necessarily to his family
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reader, kal +, writes (13 October 2008):
Be carefull!! I have been married 3 years and his family hates me and makes my life miserable! They also complicate our marriage alot, we constantly argue about family. Its not gotten any better and chances are your problem will never get any better either. I would stay away, even though you may think your only marrying him...youre actually marring his family as well. and beleive me its no fun. dont trap yourself. they will tear you both apart! If he is any kind of man he will respect you and stand up for you as his new and most important family...he should always put his new family first. I wish my husband would realize this! good luck!
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