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I love him but i'm also scared of him.

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Question - (19 August 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 August 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I like this guy who is so sweet and has big blue eyes and brown hair, but I'm scared cause he said he would kill me if I didn't show up o time for our next date. He then said he was joking, but I've seen him say that stuff to his friends like:Hey buddy throw the ball nect time or I'll hit you! Just Kidding! Next, he goes and takles the the guy and punches him and then pulls a knife on them( happened at school actually) and say" I said THROW it next time!" He told me he just wants to be anything but ordinary. He isn't Bi-polar. I made SURE of that. What do I do? He scares me, but I love him SO uch and would do anything for him, but I'm really scsared and I can't do anything like tell a parent cause then he might get in HE-UGE trouble. H's never hurt me before, but he just strted on me and now I'm going to be a nervous wreck! HELP!!

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A male reader, somewhat_anonymous United States +, writes (20 August 2007):

Yeah, pulling a knife and saying , "Just kidding?" He likes to take jokes too far or he is crazy and unpredictable and dangerous.

In either case, leave now and keep your distance, then tell someone. Even if he was joking with the knife, what if a cop had been walking by? He'd be in a lot of trouble and he's got to learn. On top of that, he's started hurting you, what makes you think sitting there will make him stop?

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (19 August 2007):

Jamer70 agony auntThis guy sounds like a big psyco!!

You would wanna advoid this guy at all costs as he is dangerous.

He is just trouble if he pulls a knife on people and you dont know he may take the next step if you date him. If he harrases you tell a teacher/parent as he should be put away for carrying a knife.

I believe you cant love him if you are scared of him, its just not right.

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (19 August 2007):

flower girl agony auntIf i were you babe i would steer well clear of this one, if he has turned on people before for such a small thing then i would not take the risk.

If he starts to harass you then you will have to say something to someone.

You will realise as you grow up that sometimes we have tenancies to fancy bad boys, they usually end up hurting us in some form or another.

Take care.xx.

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