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I love him but I have a boyfriend! What should I do?

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Question - (3 December 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 December 2009)
A female India age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I like one guy from class 8th he also likes me but i dont tell yes to him since our family relationship will get spoil due to us and i dont want it but now on orkut we chat with each other he still likes me and i too but both of us is having our partners in life his girlfriend and boyfriend i still have the same feeling for him and it totally disturb me a lot i dont want him to spoil his girlfriend life but i am not getting any way to get rid out him i love him but i have boyfriend what should i do pls suggest me

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2009):

I think so both of you should meet personally have a talk with each other and than decide what you can do if both of you are ready to get out of relationship but be partical abt things

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A female reader, Araelia V United Kingdom +, writes (3 December 2009):

Araelia V agony aunti would reverse that....talk to the man you love. Tell him how you feel and make sure he understands that you intend to leave your boyfriend for him. Ask him if he will do the same. Then tell him that if he doesn't do it by say...two weeks then it's over. He has to know what you have on the line. He has to know what is at stake. What you are putting at stake for him. Then if he does decide that he will leave his girlfriend for you then you have to leave your boyfriend. You are ruining his life by staying with him when you know that you want someone else.

Hope i helped

Araelia V

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (3 December 2009):

Before either of you get together, you both need to be single. If you have a boyfriend, but love someone else, then you need to leave your boyfriend so he can find another woman. Then, you have to hope that your love will dump his girlfriend for you. but until you are both single, there is nothing you can do.

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