A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi everybody.I've got myself in a crazy love situation that's making me feel guilty and miserable all at the same time. So here's what happening. I met this man last december when I went to visit my parents for a few weeks. I was trying to pump gas into my car but couldn't figure out how to get the pump going when a man at another pump noticed I was having trouble and came over to help me. It was an instant chemistry. I thanked him and then he walked off. A few minuyes later he came back over and gave me his phone number and email address and told me to he'd like to see if we could be friends.Long story short we've grown in the ldr way. Over the year he's been trying to come see me but I've always made it impossibe by giving him far fetched excuses. He's giving me lots of pressure now and getting suspicious. This is my problem. We love each other and I want to agree to us being excusive but there's some baggage in my life that I haven't had the guts to tell him about because I'm scared I might lose him behind it. I can't go on like this. I don't want to lose him to another woman but if I keep this up I will. I get jealous with the thought that this could happen. I can't say what my garbage is. So what I want to know is anyone else in this sort of predicament or have been and what should I do and what was your turnout etc.? I'd really appreciate all thoughts on this. Thanks
View related questions:
jealous Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, No watered down advice here! +, writes (14 December 2010):
 You don’t have to tell me your “GARBAGE” for me to tell you that you need to be honest and up front with him so that he can make sure he’s willing to deal with your situation and not getting himself involved with something he’s not willing to accept. It’s not fair to him. And it’s not fair to you, to set yourself up for failure. It’s like rolling the dice, it may roll in your favor, or it may roll against you! Why take that chance when all you have to do is just be honest? ijs!
|
