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sheesh I don't know what to say... I like helping people. That's what I want to do with my life. I like to listen to other peoples problems and I want to help make everyone's life better. So Here I am talk to me! : )

Is Polycystic Ovarian Synrome hereditary?

Q.   my sister has just found out that she has Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome and she is trying for a baby. The doctor said it may be harder for her to conceive because of this. Does anyone know if it is hereditary?? Its just that a few years ago when i was ...

A.   3 November 2009: Yes it is hereditary. I have it as well and we think I got it from my mother. Because she expierenced the symptoms but she never had it checked out. Also I think my little sister has it. But anyways yes it does get passed down through genetics... (read in full...)

What will make him come back?

Q.   my boyfriend and I have been growing apart. he no longer does cute stuff anymore and hardly hangs out with me... when I asked him what was up he said he wanted to be in the relationship but sometimes her doesnt... he also admitted to me that he's ...

A.   17 September 2009: My last boyfriend also admitted to me that the doctor's thought he was bi-polar... but he didn't take his medicine. But I could tell he was bi-polar because when he got mad... he went manic and I was literally scared because he was driving at the ... (read in full...)

I want it but I don't really...

Q.   Okay so I am a healthy adult (19) who wants sex... I'm still a virgin and yes I want to wait for a guy I love and trust with my special gift. I always thought I would wait for marriage but lately I've sorta changed my mind. Again as long as I am in ...

A.   16 September 2009: thank you :D... (read in full...)

Becoming more than FWB

Q.   I see a lot of questions on here about people who are stuck in the FWB situation and often they want to know if there's a chance of becoming more. Most of the answers tell them that no, there isn't so I wanted to share my story. When I was in my la...

A.   16 September 2009: I was recently in a "relationship" like this. We started off dating and then he ran and we took it down to FWB... But I know about that horrible feelings you felt... the limbo... the afraidness to speak. It was unbearable. I loved him but I couldn't ... (read in full...)

Is he cheating on me with my sister? Should I leave?

Q.   Is he cheating on me? Lately my fiance has been selfish. I was sick for example; this entire week and couldn't even get off the couch. I asked if he could please take our daughter with him to the gym. He said "it was too much of a hassle" when I ...

A.   8 April 2009: I just want to say this... firstly you need to investigate this because YES it is VERY fishy! Then from there figure out your plan of action... And if your guy is the stay at home dad AND he isn't doing anything but smoke pot... why are you lett... (read in full...)

Am I going crazy or is he giving me mixed signals?

Q.   Okay so when i went home for spring break I was introduced to this cute guy that I really like. I asked him out later that week and we have been going on dates every weekend I come home. I realise we have just started dating and I shouldn't be ...

A.   8 April 2009: oh and he says he will wait until I am ready to ACTUALLY do anything...... (read in full...)

Am I going crazy or is he giving me mixed signals?

Q.   Okay so when i went home for spring break I was introduced to this cute guy that I really like. I asked him out later that week and we have been going on dates every weekend I come home. I realise we have just started dating and I shouldn't be ...

A.   8 April 2009: Well thanks so far... I mean I asked him last night if he liked me (the answer was yes) if he cared about me (the answer was yes) and well he answered yes to the fact that he wants me. IDK i like him and we fit perfectly together... I just found out ... (read in full...)

I really want him to kiss me

Q.   What do i do if my bf says hes going to kiss me but doesn't because he said we weren't alone? There was only 1 person in there but I'm a little shy to. I really want him to kiss me....

A.   8 April 2009: Then either you wait till you're alone or you make an situtation where you are alone. If there are people around fake a serious one on one conversation with him. Then Kiss him till you can't kiss him anymore. That's my go to move! ; )... (read in full...)

I want it but I don't really...

Q.   Okay so I am a healthy adult (19) who wants sex... I'm still a virgin and yes I want to wait for a guy I love and trust with my special gift. I always thought I would wait for marriage but lately I've sorta changed my mind. Again as long as I am in ...

A.   8 April 2009: Thank you Old guy... For some reason I never thought of it that way. I shouldn't keep putting rules and restrictions on the physical side of my relationships. Just go with the flow... your comment makes me feel so much better... (read in full...)

I didn't want to reciprocate as I'm not ready and he thinks I'm selfish

Q.   ok i've been talking to this dude for a week and he wants to have sex with me but im not ready, he performed oral sex to me but i didnt return it to him, he said that im selfish and i was so wrong for not doing him, was i?????...

A.   7 April 2009: No your not being selfish AT ALL! My ex would finger me all the time (even if I didn't want him to) And I never did anything for him in return, in that department, really... because I didn't want to and I wasn't ready. *I had Carpal Tunnel so I ... (read in full...)

My partner is verbally abussive and unsupportive but I love him

Q.   Hi, My BF and I have been together for just over 5 years. In that time we have had a lot of ups and downs, partly due to him still sorting out the legal side of his divorce with his ex wife and worrying about what he would lose in the divorce. ...

A.   7 April 2009: The first thing I'm going to say is if someone is abusive you shouldn't stay with them. But if you really want to make this work I suggeest counselling. Because if he is sorting out his problems badly and using you as a scape goat counselling is the ... (read in full...)

I'm 15...He's 26. What do I do?

Q.   I need help very badly, so please stay with me. About more than a year ago i just turned 14 before i went away to israel for vacation. i met a guy who worked there who worked at the pool deck who was 11 years older than me. i did not know this tho...

A.   7 April 2009: you need to block this guy... that way he will never be able to bother you on facebook. And as for Email put his Email address in the filter that goes straight to the trash that way you never have to see it. And well unless you kept the things he ... (read in full...)

I love her...Her family hates me!

Q.   I love this woman im am in a relationship with, we have been together for 6 months now and well heres the story behind it all so that you guys can help me..... We fell in love last november and her family doesnt like me at all because im not a quite ...

A.   7 April 2009: well she misses them a lot even though she loves you and wants you. You might have to either let her have some time alone with her family (as long as they aren't mean to her) or just bite your toungue a little bit and just stick it out with her... ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my 2nd cousin...

Q.   i love my 2nd cousin.i dont know what to do i dont see him much at all and i know he feels the same we both want to have sex is it wrong i am scared the family would findout...

A.   7 April 2009: Are you really sure you love him? This is a very taboo subject... first I would make SURE he is your blood cousin... then figure out if you a turely in love with him. Next I would see if you can get over him (because you really don't see him ... (read in full...)

He is rude towards me after we broke up

Q.   Hoping someone can help. My ex broke up with me before Christmas. I was hurt but since he asked for no contact, I complied. I saw him tonight when we happened to be at a table of mutual friends in the restaurant. I ignored him, just acted like he ...

A.   7 April 2009: honestly I'm having the same problem with my stupid ex but not only do we have mutual friends but he's best friends with my cousin and we are neighbors. I don't know why your ex is being a jerk when he's the one who wanted no contact... maybe he's ... (read in full...)

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