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writes:Hey, i'm completely confused.This girl, we've gone out, and she really likes me and all, but she doesn't want to start anything with me, because she claims that the place where we are living is unsuitable. She says she cant say she loves me, because she doesnt know what love is. I'm in opposite shoes, i do think i love her, because ive been in a few relationships, and being perfectly honest, i never felt like this. We live in the middle-east in a place where the populations roughly 5,000 people.She's extremely conscious about people talking, even though its the same in other place, just more here because there are more people.I try my best to treat her like a princess, but there are little things that can get on my nerves. I'm not sure if she doesnt appreciate me, she tells me she does, but i just cant believe it, because times when she needs me, im there. When i need her desperately however, she looks at her priorities first, and if she's 'in doubt' of getting into trouble, so if there are chances of her getting into trouble, she leaves me on the spot, even if i've just gone moody about something. Apart from that she also blocks all form of contact with me, and im just left there thinking i cant do anything to be higher ranked in her life, even if she tells me she "really really" likes me. I think my heads screwing me, i think its abnormal to think so much. Is this what im supposed to feel? i can't lose her, for anything. Reply to this Question
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