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male
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:i am 16 and i love this girl.She knows this...she doesn't like me...after knowing this she hates me now...she hesitates to talk to me and talks to my friends and other guys more...her friends like me...they think I'm a nice guy and i mostly talk to her friends more than her...i try to not look at her everyday and forget her but i have tried enough and it doesn't work. we have a prom coming up and i wanted to take her but i know she will definitely reject me...i dont want to go against her wishes and push it and if she is happy to go with another guy i am fine with that..as long as she is happy. I cant sleep at nights and i get angry and frustrated everyday....I just love her sooo much.I need some useful advise plz :) Reply to this Question
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (30 March 2011):
 I experienced a guy loving me at the age of 16. He really upset me - why? Because I did not know him and he was too much in my face and he frighten me.
How can someone love someone they hardly know! You are probably doing what this guy did too me. You are not in love but have a deep crush, which is natural. If you really like this girl, back off. Leave it a while and then try to become friends - slowly. As things become more friendly gradually start suggested dates - as a friend maybe in a group. As she gets to know you, you can start going alone.
Its probably too soon for her to be your prom date but look at how you are coming across. Its hard and we all make mistakes. Look at what the popular guys do - they play it so cool that the girls flock them.
Take my advice and they will flock you too!
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