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writes:im 15 and i know this girl since two years now. its been a while since her last boyfriend, around 5 months, (and way more handsome than me...) so i wanna try myself. the thing is, this girl likes to put on msn everything that happens on her love life. so i recently knew that her ex just played with her, telling her that he wants to retake with her, but it was all a joke from his part, and she fell for it. a few weeks before this, i asked her if she wants to go out with him again, and she clearly said no. recently, she is just leaving from msn everytime i enter, and before she just talked with me right away...thanks for your help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): Man!! I'm in exactly the same position. Well nearly. 15. I have lnown this girl for roughly 2 years. I love her more than I ever imagined possible. She went on a cruise and met a guy a little while
before I met her. They tried the long
distance thing and kept it going for 7 months. After the second time seeing him, they, mainly he, decided it was too hard andnit wasn't the same. Here's where things are different. I was decent friends with her. I was going out, with her best friend. I loved her not the friend. I broke it off with the friend and admitted to her that I loved her. She said she only liked me as a best friend. And even if she didn't she wouldn't want to hurt her friend. So we stayed as friends. As te went by
we got closer and closer. I loved her. She loved
me as a best friend. She was kind and i got lots of hugs. I admitted to her that I wanted to kiss her. That the temptation was really bad. After about a month of just hanging out, she got it too. However she stuck by her answer of no. She must have had a big conversation with the friend
cos about two weeks later, she said she loved
me as more than a best friend. We've been together a month and a half
now.
Sometimes, I still get the feeling that she loves the guy from the cruise. She will talk about him in front of me. She will say it was practically the best 20 days ofnher life. I know i should trust her but my head doesn't want to. I feel a little unfaithful when i have these thoughts. But they leave whenever I'm with her.
I'm your case, I'd suggest becoming closer friends with her. When you do that, you might find out if she wants to go out with him again. As for avoiding you on msn, I don't want to get your hopes up but she could be figuring out who's her true friends and who isn't. My girl stopped talking to me for a while when she figuring out what way she loved me.
Bottom line, I'd just say become better friends.
She needs to trust you with her secrets.
P.S. I can't believe I finally found someone in the same situation as myself. Good luck to you sir.
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