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anonymous
writes:Hello everybody,Me and my girlfriend, we have been together for more than a year now, but recently she started to act like she does not want to see me anymore.We used to have fun together almost every single day, but now I haven't seen her for almost a week. I asked her out 3 times since the last day I saw her, but all I got was something like "I don't know" or "I'm not sure I want to" or "Maybe later". The last time I asked her out, she said "I don't know" and changed subject. I asked her, why she didn't want to see me, and the answer was "I don't know" again. So I said "Call me when you'll know" and we never talked/texted again.I'm getting sick of this and now I plan to wait 2 weeks and if she does not contact me, I'm going to collect her stuff from my apartment and drive to her place to break up.On the one hand, I know there is no other way. I love her very much, but with no feedback our relationship is dead.On the other hand, I hope it is just another mood swing of hers. But if we get deeper, these mood swings will get worse, so our relationship is doomed to become a walk to the earthquake epicenter.It fells like it's a lose-lose. But I feel desperate without her. Waiting is tourcherous, I literally have get my phone to some place where I can't see it, because I want to call her too much.Dear reader, this was quite long and I would appreciate any advice from you. Reply to this Question
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reader, ktmae  +, writes (4 September 2012):
 girls sometimes use this approach to make you be the so called bad guy.Its the cowards way out but it happens.you seem to already know the facts.letting go doesnt mean you are actually the od guy just that its time for you to move forward in life.Its horrible people wont just tell you what they are thinking but make the call and put your suffering to an end . You deserve that and start the healing process. A broken takes a while to mend but the lord works in mysterious ways.this may be for the best in your life.also when you make your decission stick to it. Good luck i hope things go well for you.
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reader, rcn +, writes (4 September 2012):
 It seems you already know what to do, and are asking for some hope that their is a magic cure to fix this. Unfortunately there isn't. You seem like you have a good head on your shoulders, and have this planned in the same direction that I would probably advise you to go. I know it's difficult, but sometimes you have to know when to let go. It doesn't mean that you stop loving her, it just means that you'll be letting her go, because you love her.
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reader, SensitiveBloke  +, writes (4 September 2012):
 Sounds like she wants to break up. From how you've described her, it might be for the best anyway if she's often moody without good reason. It's gonna be tough for you, but it's for the best in the long run believe me.
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