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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:ok heres the deal..i am 25 years old with two kids and i am with my kids dad have been for about 4 years. about a year ago i meet this guy at work and he seemed to be everything ive ever wanted in a man! so things werent going so good with the kids dad so i broke it off with him and decided to date the other guy. we seemed great for eachother for awhile..seemed as if we were living this fantsy life! then one day i woke up thinking is this what i really want..? i had been hangin with some girlfriends at the bar and getting a taste of the single life ive never really had.. and it made me think i wanted that insted.. so i broke it off with him for about a month then got back with the kids dad.. i feel like the other guy was pushing me to much to be with him and be a "family" too quickly.. me and the other guy dated for about 7 months before i broke it off. me and my kids dad are together now but about two months ago me and the "other" guy reconnected and all the great feelings came back..almost like we fell in love all over again.. i have never felt the way i feel about him with anyone else ever!!! i love being with him..i can see myself marrying him oneday..i can see myself marrying my kids dad. seems like a easy decision right? but its not i love the other guy and my kids dad but i have a stronger connection and feeling for the other guy but things in the past make me wonder if i should just stay where i am..i know i love these two men and dont know what to do..there has been some drama going on and i dont want that so i know a desion has to be made and i dont want to hurt anyone but i am! dont know what to do??? any advise will help thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009): Oh. My. God.
I feel sorry for these 2 guys, but above all, I feel sorry for the children! You sound like a complete immature flake! You go from this guy, then to this other guy, than ur at the bar and u want to be single again! I didn't read one sentence in there about how much you love your kids, or what might be best for your kids. Only how you chase some lusty feeling, when the current lusty feeling becomes old! You are unbelievable! I would suggest you do what is best for you and your children's well being, but I'm sure you will just continue to chase the "flavor of the month"
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