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female
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30-35,
*exyladyz
writes:I let my boyfriend go down on me and touch my boobs bt i dont feel comfortable touching his penis is this weird ?
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reader, Illithid +, writes (2 February 2010):
 You may wish to read this other question from a male poster who provides oral to his girlfriend but gets nothing in return:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-partner-of-4-years-will-insert-a.html
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (2 February 2010):
 Well I think it is a bit unusual. In my experience, women seem to love playing with a man's equipment. Maybe you think it's dirty/nasty or something, but any man with good hygiene and is disease-free has healthy parts to handle, suck or with which to have intercourse. Mutual oral satisfaction, by the way, is only fair.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2010): illithid is quite right. i think that its something you should work on just because you care about him. It is a huge blow to a mans ego and self esteem for a woman to not to find him appealing. it is a problem that can be overcome, it just takes making yourself do it until it gets easier. i was the same way....but not anymore. lol. mal
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reader, chiina +, writes (1 February 2010):
Hun it's not wierd at all. I was the same way. trust me the more you do it the faster you will get used to it and won't feel weird anymore. you actally beging to like it as you hear your man moaning and knowing you got him wraped around your finger atleast for that one moment hehe trust me hunny it just takes some getting used to.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (1 February 2010):
You're far from unique in that. In fact, my ex was the same way. Sadly, while it's not weird at all, it IS hurtful. You like him to give you pleasure, but don't want to give him any back. That's selfish. I know you're uncomfortable, but you ought to either try to get over that, or stop asking for him to go down for you. Right now, you're not being fair. And no matter how much he might say he's ok with it, the resentment WILL build. He may even take it personally and think that you won't touch him because he's simply too unattractive to you to be touched.
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