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*razycat27
writes:I posted this question earlier and didn't get any replies so in reposting it. I'm falling for a mate of mine pretty hard. We both flirt with each other a fair bit and joke around .. Thing is I've just found out from another that he's got a girlfriend. When my friend asked him she didn't tell him who wanted to know, so I'm not entirely sure if he knew it was me .. Thing is hes still really flirty and continues to be really nice towards me. I can't get him out of my head , I try avoiding him because I want these feelings to go away since I can't act upon them (because of his relationship status). It's doing my head in because when I try not to see him he's there. He throws his rubbish at me and says it's not him and he knows I'm single so he's like oh hey look it's ur boyfriend About guys who aren't .. He's always looking for my attention, like he walks past and repeats my name and talks dirty to me and is like so when ya coming to work for me (but not that kind of work)? When he walks past he whistles and in the meetings he sits across and starts talking to the person next to him and says stuff about me like have you met Catherine and stuff like that .. I don't know what to do, I know I can't pursue anything but I can't get him out of my head !!! Please help
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (11 May 2011):
 I think you need to be certain of one thing first. Who is his girlfriend? It could be he was talking about YOU for all you know. So clarify that first, just ask him directly.
If he does have a girlfriend I pity her, since her boyfriend is running around like he's single and flirting with other women. It is disrespecting her. If you and him ended up in a relationship (if he broke up with his gf) he would do the same to you!
You're not getting him out of your head because he's constantly pushing for your attention, hanging around you, flirting with you, and you have fallen for him. The only way to get over him is to
a. find someone else
b. stop seeing him, which means you need to avoid him
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