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writes:Hey guys, So I am in another situation. I am getting mixed signals from a boy I am not sure I like. We have been friends for 8 months, and become quiet close. At the beginning he said he liked me and as time progressed I started to like him, by then he had lost interest... .typical... but the past few days he has wanted to see me and e clingy, he always talks about finding a girlfriend infront of me, asks me questions about previous relationships and we seem to be very touchy feely. But I know I like him, but I am not sexually attracted to him... I aint sure what I am feeling for him or what he is for me can you help explain!!!:L Reply to this Question
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (2 February 2013):
 HI
It sounds like he just wants you a his best gf (bff)anyway to be honest. More and more men are intouch with their fememine side these days, and get on very well as just friends with women. Saying he likes you but speaks about getting a girlfriend is probably his way of telling you with out telling you if you know what I mean. However your liking him but not sexually is quite normal. We can experience all kinds of feelings for close friends, so rather than over analyze the situation take it for what it is, friendship .
mandy x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2013): The way you feel might have something to do with the fact that you became closer to him from being friends. It seems like from what you wrote that you see him more as a friend but maybe your feelings for him are getting stronger. I have been in a similar situation because my friend told me that she had feelings for me and i have fancied a few women
but i feel that i am straight and although i diddnt feel sexually attracted
to her but at the same time i had weird feeling where sometimes i would feel like i liked her and i wanted to touch her not in a sexual way but hug and flirt with her. I think that the attraction was also due to the way that she made me feel about myself so maybe this or some in this is is similar in your situation if so i would stay as friends or let him go because its not fair to carry on if he only sees you more as a friend an
you dont.
Hope this helps.
Hope this helps
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