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I like girl 1, but it seems like girl 2 is the one who is interested in me! What should I do?

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Question - (14 November 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 November 2012)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i met this girl after we spoke online for a while and she was great i met with her and a few of her friends and we all got on well we hugged hello and bye. then we were talking etc and we arranged to meet up me and her twice but it didn't happen as she stopped messaging me before we were suppose to meet both times then she explained that she wasn't a fan on online talking etc cause she got dumped that way by the guy who cheated on her as well.

she invited me to a public bonfire last week and it was great i met more of her friends and they were all great got on well with them all. i liked her a little before the bonfire but then after i really like her now i just want to be around her. I told her that last night as I had a few to drink and she didn't reply to me when i was saying things like she's better than any girl could ever be and that it was a rubbish day cause i didn't see her. and she only replied after I said sorry but she invited me to her friends party but I texted her this morning saying sorry for last night etc and she hasn't replied yet. I also added 3 x's at the end which we haven't done only 1 or 2 and she kept using the 3 x's as well.

also at the bonfire there was this girl there whos 16 we spoke a little and the next day she added me on facebook and by what i think she likes me but the thing is i'm 19 and she's 16. if the 1st girl wasn't interested then i'd go for this 16 year old but the age difference seems a little weird and i think i could get judged.

in a big mess right now what do I do for any situation i really like girl 1 but girl 2 is nice and actualy seems like she likes me?

what's the best thing i should do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2012):

You sort out which girl you like best and go for her. Coming from a girl, if I was the 16 year old and you went for me, and a few weeks down the line girl 1 became interested, I'd be really upset if you then went for girl 1. If that makes any sense at all?

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