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36-40,
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writes:Hi, I'm not sure it's normal or something different from others guys. I'm 24 years old and I like older women. Now, I think I have a crush on my boss. She's a very smart and pretty lady. She's early 40 I think. Whenever she talk nicely to other colleagues or chatting with them, I envy them and felt unhappy. Anyway, I found out recently that she's married and had kids also. Not sure It's kind of love or need more attention from her. I know that I should not be doing this way for a married woman. Please advise me how to I act at work and how to keep away from those emotions. Cheer!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Anastasia,
I do respect that. That's the reason I'm seeking advice from you all.
I have to keep away from faltering with her as she did send me a message sometime also. I will keep myself busy with my studying and work.
Hope I can forget about her after work by doing that.
You may know that kind of feeling in your heart when you found some one you really like. Now, I don't have that feeling to a girl around me and very close to me. She asked me out for many times. She's very honest and cute girl though, I have no interest in her as my life partner. Should I just date her for sake of being alone? OR wait for a girl who can awake my heart.
Thank you so much for your kind help.
Sincerely,
Kelv
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (9 June 2012):
 Hi,
First off she's married with a family...you need to respect that and move on.
Secondly, unless you NEED to have direct contact with her because of job requirements or duties, you don't need to be sitting and staring at her or thinking about her....she's married. Focus on your work and direct your energies elsewhere.
I can assure that if you work is not up to mark or you are faltering in your responsibilities....she's going to fire you. So to avoid that and to maintain your self respect and your job....focus your energies on a single girl who's smart and cute.
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