I know I deserve way better than this! What do I do about this marriage?

A female age 41-50, *emy writes:

Ok here is the situation at hand, my husband, I just don't know anymore with him, on 4/27/13 I was having bad chest pains and I was thinking about going to the er, he wouldn't even go with me, he said that all my anxiety attacks are coming from me, reason he said that is because I don't like being around my family, and everytime I know I'm gonna be around them I have these attacks. And he just kept giving me his behind to kiss, he was casting like he don't care, he makes me feel like I always ruin things for him because I don't party, or drink like I'm 20 years old. Things with us are good when he ain't drinking. You see that's a big problem foe me, its ok to drink but he drinks a 6 pack with in an hour just one right after another, I don't understand it. I have never disrespect him the way he does me, sometimes he never comes home till the next day. But according to him he has done no wrong. I am tired and weak from not eating, sleeping, and constantly crying. I have been praying for a revelation, and to make things so bad, he will not let me use his car to go to church!!! I know I deserve way better than this. Please any advice will help.

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