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I know he likes me and I treasure his friendship. Should we just keep it that way?

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Question - (4 September 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 September 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm developing feelings for one of my best guy friends.

He is two years younger than me. He has his silly moments but he is very thoughtful, detail oriented, reliable, supported, and makes me laugh like there's no tomorrow.

However a few years ago in high school he tried to ask my younger sister out and she rejected him. She doesn't know him like I do and would be horrified if she knew I liked him. So would my mom. It would be a huge joke.

We're still just friends and I treasure his friendship. Should we just keep it that way and should I look out for someone my age? I'm in my last year of college. I know he likes me but we have kept our boundaries.

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A female reader, gothicbabey Australia +, writes (4 September 2012):

if you really like him, then go for it, age shouldn't matter and neither should your mum or sisters opinions, normally when friends date there is an up and a down side to it, if you make things more serious then you cant change your mind right after, it is also harder to break up with a friend so keep in mind all the positives and negatives, my advice is go for it if he likes you and you like him, you never know, you could be a perfect couple.

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