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anonymous
writes:I have a boyfriend i love very much. at a party last weekend, i got really drunk and kissed a girl i like hanging out with. I've never been attracted to women but i do like this girl alot. Was that kiss considered cheating on my boyfriend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008): I had a boyfriend and I got drunk and kissed a girl. She was just a friend, same situation as you. I wasnt interested in girls in any way. I don't consider it cheating as long as you aren't interested in girls it could be considered cheating if you were. But being drunk is having your brain at is hardest point to think logically. Don't worry about it girl. Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008): If it is just a one off, drunken thing... then no. It was an impule and as you were drunk you were at your weakest point logically.
Just don't do it again unless he agrees that two women kissing is hot and you let him watch and perhaps join in. Then, its not cheating, its EXPERIMENTING and SPICING THINGS UP.
Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008): I too was very much in love with my boyfriend and after a wild night out I ended up kissing a friend in the back of a limo infront of loads of people - we were all over each other and didnt care... I dont know how or why, but it happened. Someone told my boyfriend and to say he went mental is an understatement.... He has never let me forget it and considers it totally cheating. Be very careful.. I cant even mention her name now......let along hang out with her.
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reader, Felina  +, writes (26 November 2008):
 Hi!!I´ve done the same thing...but my boyfriend was there and he saw it.I thought he was going to feel turned on,but he felt gealous!Yes,kissing a girl is not the same as kissing another man.But yes,the feel betraid.
I also have never felt atracted by other woman,but lately I have.And one night,we went to this danceclub,and there was a very sexy girl,who was teasing me for hours.I couldnt resist it.I just went close to her,and she kissed me,while touching my hole body.And my boyfriend saw the whole thing.He went not furious,but sad and worried.
After we talked for hours and days about it,then he told me this made him feel really horny,but at the same time,it scared him,and made him insecure.
So the answer is no,we dont feel we are actualy cheating.But yes,they think we are.
Hope I helped!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008): The mere fact that you are asking this question means it is worryig you. Only you can answer the question, as only you willknow if it was done as innocent fun or if you had alterior motives. We cannot judge as we don't know what your feelings are or were at that time.
I suggest you need to take time and decide for yourself if it was an innocent joke and fun or if it had a deeper meaning. Once you have made up your mind as to the reason and meaning of the kiss, you will know if it was cheating or not.
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reader, xxaziexx  +, writes (26 November 2008):
 not really!!
i dought he would mind, try telling him asking him if he minds, youll find out then.
as some people it would mean cheating and others it wouldnt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008): Yes it is considered cheating kissing someone that is not your partner whether they r male or female.
Have u spoke to this girl since? Is she gay or bi or even fancy you in that way?
perhaps u should think about what would happen if she wanted to go further with u? and how would your boyfriend feel should he find out, or this girl tells him.
R u interested in exploring more with this girl if so then do so when your single.
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