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hi,im 15, ive always wanted to answer peoples problems (or try too!) && i found this site!

i have msn so if anyone wants to ask me something through that, just ask for it by mailing me :)

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Problem with testicles!

Q.   When feeling the testicles, whatever connects to the left gland (vein, semen line, etc) on the left testicle, what does it mean when in contrast to the right gland the connection feels swollen and bumpy? plz answer as soon as possible, thank yo...

A.   29 November 2008: Get it checked out if you're worried. good luck ... (read in full...)

Do you think he will ever get back with me?

Q.   Me and my bf finished on sunday I had already written a question on sunday there sayin that we always argue .. we still toked on the fone on the monday a cppl of times and then on the tuesday and wen i was at college on the tuesday afternoon he had ...

A.   27 November 2008: :( please see he's obviously not worth it, and it sounds to me as if he's playing games with you. try playing him at his own game, dont text, dont call he'll realise soon and maybe ring you but give him time too 'miss' you good luck ... (read in full...)

Is there a way I can tell I am pregnant...this soon after having sex?

Q.   I recently had a one night stand with a very very good friend of mine and well we kind of had a problem with the condom. I went to the doctors and took a morning after pill but there is still a niggling feeling in the back of my head... what if?...

A.   27 November 2008: try a pregnancy test, but it might not show up as this is kinda a bit early!! the morning after pill reduces the chance of gettin pregnant by i think its 95% soo im pretty sure you wont get pregnant but, look out for, sore boobs, mor... (read in full...)

We're just sex buddies...even though we broke up 2 months ago! Any advice?

Q.   Hiya everyone, i now this is sounding stupid and desperate but, me and my ex broke 2 months ago for the past month we've been having sex as in f**k buddies, the thing is we both we not getting any and he hardly has any money and so he puts it ...

A.   27 November 2008: okay you pay him for sex ??? have a bit of respect for yourself no i dont know anyone who pays their ex to sleep with them :S it isnt right, and he must think this is flippin great!!! gettin money and all the rest he wants please think ab... (read in full...)

I don't think I love my husband anymore! Help!

Q.   Hi I feel sick and utterly alone not being able to talk to anyone about my marriage. There is nobody I feel I can be absolutely honest with and the one person I should do my husband I don't want to hurt. We have been married 9 years and have 4...

A.   27 November 2008: : ( its sad, and youll probly find if you did split up youd miss him sometimes, however you have to think whats best for YOU! my nan stayed in a relationship untill she was 60! just because she wanted too keep the family together but now shes moved ... (read in full...)

Should I phone him or let it go?

Q.   I broke up with my bf a few months ago and we remained good friends. The problem is that I still have feeling for him and I am finding it difficult to move on. I decided that cutting off all contact with him would be the best way to get over him and ...

A.   26 November 2008: move on, if you feel you have to then you have to, dont run back too him especially if you feel your getting somewere. however if you think/hope there is a slight chance of you two working things out, then call and find out :) good luck ... (read in full...)

I really like him and I heard he really likes me but what I did is putting him off.

Q.   I got out of a relationship with a boy about 2 months ago. I fell out of love with him and tried to get him to dump me by, well basically being a twat of a girlfriend, i told a friend he had said something about him an they had a big must up an he ...

A.   26 November 2008: if you still like eachother giving it another go would do no harm, however if your sure you dont want to be with him any more dont lead him on because you still want him around, its unfair. also how would you feel if he got with someone else? if y... (read in full...)

Is kissing considered cheating?

Q.   Is kissing cheating? Just how bad is it to kiss (make out with) someone else when in a VERY serious relationship?...

A.   26 November 2008: yes, its cheating. ... (read in full...)

I am in a dilemma, I think I might be pregnant!!!

Q.   Hi, I am in a dilemma, I think I might be pregnant but my result on boots pregnancy test came back a faint negative line. I'm not due till 4th December 08, did I do it too early, I have all the symptoms, bloated stomach, nausea, I have actually gone ...

A.   26 November 2008: consult a doctor, if you dont want this baby take action as soon as you can, if you dont want to do that, then wait and see if you come on when you should. ... (read in full...)

Am I just being too anxious here?

Q.   Well, I have been dating this girl for a month now, we hang out a lot, and we have a great time together. We are at the point where we will greet each other with a kiss and leave with a kiss, we give each other massages and fool around a little ...

A.   26 November 2008: you should give her time, she may have had bad experiances in the past and just wants to take things slow to ensure she doesnt mess things up with you, you should respect her for this.:) maybe you could sit her down and have a chat ask her were she ... (read in full...)

Gay... or not gay... that is the question!!!

Q.   Hi. I'm a 15 year old guy and I'm starting to get confused about my sexuality. When I was 12, I started watching porn (straight) and I loved it, but as time went on, it stopped working for me. Now,I really enjoy watching gay porn and jerking off to ...

A.   26 November 2008: hey, you may be bi-sexual which means you like girls&&boys but if you are gay dont beat yourself up about it its fiine :D good luck i hope you find out. ... (read in full...)

I kissed a girl and I liked it. Was it cheating?

Q.   I have a boyfriend i love very much. at a party last weekend, i got really drunk and kissed a girl i like hanging out with. I've never been attracted to women but i do like this girl alot. Was that kiss considered cheating on my boyfriend?...

A.   26 November 2008: not really!! i dought he would mind, try telling him asking him if he minds, youll find out then. as some people it would mean cheating and others it wouldnt.... (read in full...)

Feeling the same? Do you think we have something here?

Q.   Hi i know this is a weird questions I went on a date with this guy ,in april and i felt we hit it off straight away, He finished with me,cus he still felt sumthing for his ex, Anyway last week we started talking again, and slept together twice...

A.   26 November 2008: hmm do you actually mind him falling asleep??!! if not fair enuuf but :S anyway, he must like you to have slept with you unless, your a rebound(no affence)he may still be very confused and upset over his ex if this is the case be carefull not to g... (read in full...)

Why do I feel heartbroken over a guy who I might have not even liked?

Q.   I'm so confused. A few weeks ago this guy told me he really liked me - like really liked me. I told him I didn't know what to say because I had just broken up with his best friend. I enjoyed flirting but I really don't know if I liked him or not. ...

A.   26 November 2008: your going through a break up, we all feel a bit confused when that sort of thing happens. and you wanted to give yourself time, but when he showed interest, you wernt interested but now when youve realised he likes someone else you miss having s... (read in full...)

Is he interested or just friendly?

Q.   Here's the story. Met this guy at a live music venue, 5 weeks ago. I was with someone else but we managed a quick excited chat (I liked what I saw, he surely seemed like he liked what he's seen too). Had to go earlier but we exchanged a pat on the ...

A.   26 November 2008: he seems interested, but take things slow :) good luck ... (read in full...)

Is it possible something more happened?

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend for over a month and I know that isn't long but I really love her. She kissed her ex and on another day he showed himself to her (down below) now I'm wary that more happened, I mean I do have trust issues anyway through ...

A.   26 November 2008: if you have trust issues because of past relationships it was very unfair of her to tamper with this. if you dont think she's trust worthy then break it off, but if you think you can give her another chance then do : ) but ONE chance and make sure... (read in full...)

Internet cheating

Q.   My boyfriend of three and a half years has cheated on me over the internet before. Several times. I have asked that he absolutely not use Instant Messenger for that very reason. He promised that he wasn't using IM at all. Recently, I found out that ...

A.   26 November 2008: Confront him, he's taking you for a mug, he's treating you badly and going against your wishes dont put up with it. If you think he's the type of guy thatl not learn by you asking then 'attack' and you do exaclty the same, spend a lot of time ar... (read in full...)

How do you know what you've ruined a friendship?

Q.   How do you "know" when you have ruined a friendship? I have a best friend that I care about so much that he means the sun and moon to be, but recently I said some things to him that were rash, impulsive, and selfish, and I know that I hurt him....

A.   26 November 2008: people say things they don't mean, and usually its to the ones that mean most :( so don't beat yourself up about it as you only human:. i think you should have a good talk with him, explain your sorry and you didnt mean any of those things and would ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend's parents found out that we've been having sex and want us to stop...

Q.   My girlfriend's parents found out that we've been having sex and want us to stop, neither me or her want to stop and it's not like we have sex like crazy, it's just like once a week. Should we follow them? or continue to do it behind their backs? ...

A.   26 November 2008: Your 16! You can do what the hell you like it's not up to anyones parents, doesnt mean they have to like it but you shouldnt stop just because of parents. Maybe you should talk to them about it explain that it's something you've both agreed t... (read in full...)

Does my fantasy seem normal? Anyone else fantasise about this or similar?

Q.   I'm a 22-year old male, and I often fantasize about having unprotected sex. I find the thought that there's a possibility of of fertilizing a woman with my seed and creating a new life inside her extremely arousing. Often when my ex-girlfriend and ...

A.   26 November 2008: It's a nice fantasy : ) and different people fantasize about different things it doesn't make you abnormal at all. Not many men fantasize about something as romantic as that, what a nice bloke : ) ... (read in full...)

Are secret phone calls from exes okay?

Q.   Hey everyone, I just wondered what people's opinion was on a minor issue that has been bothering me. This is nothing big or dramatic, but it's the kind of thing that I know affects a lot of couples and I would value anyone's opinions or insi...

A.   26 November 2008: :( no its horrid of her! shes taking you for a mug especially saying she missis him and that she prefers the way he does stuff to way you do things! this must be upsetting for you but she isnt treating you right at all, if she really loved you and ... (read in full...)

Do I need to shave??????

Q.   Ok so I have a bit of a personal question.. I'm concerned about whether or not I'm supposed to shave my vaginal area? My bf and I have been getting close, and he's tried several times to put his hand down/take off my pants and I haven't let him ...

A.   26 November 2008: different men like different things, but if you dont want to shave it might be an idea to at least trim! its cleaner, a bikini wax would be a good idea asits very femanine and tidy. if this guy really likes you he will respect whatever you dec... (read in full...)

Realistically, what are the chances she could get pregnant from this?

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been having sex for 3 months, we try our best to be responsible and use condoms but occasionally in the heat of the moment we don't use one (but I always pull out and she's been fine).. Well the other night we wanted to have ...

A.   26 November 2008: She can easily get pregnant, not just this time but all the times before that, in which you havnt used a condom. there is still a chance that there is sperm in pre-come so its not about pulling it out in time!! i know this and im 15! I suggest... (read in full...)

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