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*razybeast
writes:My old best friend from when I was about 3 to 10 has recently started contancting me through facebook and we have been chatting and catching up for the last 5 or so years. Well we was chatting away and I asked if he had a girlfriend and then he told me he was gay so I told him I was too. He split up with his then boyfriend and was a lil down but now he is feeling better he seems to be wanting to get closer to me.Now I used to have a crush on him when i was really young like 6/7 and I think I can barely remember being curous with him when we was about 10 but obviously don't want to bring it up just incase I made it up or something.What should I do? I kinda like him but not in the way I used to, not yet anyway but if this carries on I might.
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reader, AvgGuy1  +, writes (16 July 2011):
 Well... you say that you haven't seen him in YEARS. People change... A LOT.
However, I would say that since you had a previously established 'relationship' and that you liked him, a little more than just a friend - it sounds like - that you should go forward with re-establishing that relationship... and perhaps it will lead to something more intimate.
You never really know... until you do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2011): Disclaimer: I've never had a relationship.
I wouldn't worry. Just go with it and whatever happens happens. Just be honest about your feelings if they grow again and especially if he seems more interested than you are. If you need to let him down, sooner is always better.
Good luck!
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